Taking your baby to the doctor for the first time can feel like stepping into uncharted territory. It’s a mix of emotions—pride, love, and let’s be honest, a touch of anxiety. What’s going to happen? Will they cry? Will I have all the answers the doctor needs?
Take a deep breath. This visit is a beautiful step in your parenting journey. Let’s walk through it together, so you know exactly what to expect, how to prepare, and why this visit matters.
And hey, if reading this doesn’t answer all your questions, we’ve got you covered—tune in to our Spotify podcast, “Baby’s First Doctor Visit: What to Expect”, where we unpack this topic in an even more personal way.
Why This Visit Is Important
Your baby’s first doctor visit, usually scheduled within the first week after birth, is more than just a check-up. It’s the beginning of a long-term partnership between you, your baby, and their paediatrician.
This appointment is all about ensuring your little one is healthy and thriving. But it’s also a chance for you to voice concerns, ask questions, and get the reassurance you might need as a new parent.
What Happens at the First Visit?
Here’s a snapshot of what you can expect during this milestone:
1. Growth and Development Check
The doctor will measure your baby’s weight, length, and head circumference to establish growth benchmarks. Don’t stress if your baby has lost a little weight since birth—it’s completely normal.
2. A Thorough Physical Exam
The paediatrician will gently examine your baby from head to toe, checking things like reflexes, skin tone, and overall health. This might feel like a lot, but remember, they’re trained to handle even the tiniest patients with care.
3. Newborn Care Basics
This is your time to talk about feeding (breast or bottle), sleep routines, and those adorable but puzzling newborn habits.
4. Screening and Vaccines
The doctor might review any screening tests from the hospital and discuss the vaccine schedule. If any shots are needed, your baby may cry—but it’s over in seconds, and you’ll be there to comfort them.
5. Questions for You
Your paediatrician may ask about your baby’s feeding, sleeping, and diaper changes. These questions help them paint a full picture of your little one’s health.
How to Prepare for the Visit
Being prepared can make this visit much smoother. Here are a few tips:
- Pack a diaper bag with the essentials: Diapers, wipes, an extra outfit, a blanket, and feeding supplies.
- Bring your baby’s hospital records, if you have them.
- Write down questions ahead of time: Newborns don’t come with manuals, so ask anything—no question is too small or silly.
Common Questions from Parents
Let’s tackle a few questions that most new parents have:
Q: What if my baby cries the entire time?
Babies cry. It’s their way of communicating, and doctors expect it. It won’t stop the doctor from doing their job, and your baby will be just fine.
Q: Should both parents attend?
If possible, yes! Having an extra set of ears and hands can be a big help.
Q: How long will the appointment last?
Typically, the first visit lasts about 30–45 minutes.
What This Visit Means for You as a Parent
This appointment isn’t just about your baby—it’s about you, too. Your doctor is there to support you as much as your little one. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, sleep-deprived, or just unsure about something, this is the time to ask for guidance.
Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff
If you forget the baby wipes or can’t find the right papers, it’s okay. Doctors understand that new parents have a lot on their plates. The most important thing is that you and your baby show up.
Remember, this visit is the first step in a lifelong journey of caring for your child. You’re doing great, even if it doesn’t feel that way every single moment.
Need More Support?
Parenting doesn’t come with an instruction manual, but it does come with a community. For more tips, and expert advice check out our Spotify podcast, “Baby’s First Doctor Visit: What to Expect”. You’ll find a friendly voice there to guide you through this and other parenting milestones. Click here to listen now.
Final Thoughts
This first doctor visit is just one of many milestones you’ll celebrate as a parent. It’s a time to embrace the learning curve, trust your instincts, and know you’re not alone on this journey.
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“Don’t go through mumming alone.”
FK Jesuyode
Founder, 5StarMums
